Further Support for Victims of Grace Fellowship Manchester,
If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, always call 999 and ask for the police.
Every type of abuse has a lasting and damaging effect on a victim, and anyone connected closely with them.
Fortunately, there are many specialist individuals and groups offering free services to help, covering for a wide variety of situations. Our list will be updated regularly, but in the meantime here is some information on where to find a few good resources, that you may find useful.
Feel free to contact us if you feel you would like more information or would like to share your story or just need to talk to someone about any abuse you have experienced or witnessed and are unsure what to do about it. We are more than willing to hear from you, and are happy to listen if you want to share your story. We can also direct you to qualified and experienced professionals who can help you further if you would like that.
Helpful Organisations, Links, References, Articles and More
Spiritual Abuse
Help for victims of Spiritual Abuse
If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, always call 999 and ask for the police. |
https://www.netgrace.org/resources A fantastic site with many resources and links for survivors of spiritual abuse. |
Dr. Diane Langberg is a practicing psychologist whose clinical expertise includes 35 years of working with trauma survivors and clergy. She speaks internationally on topics related to women, trauma, ministry and the Christian life. |
Investigation into Sexual Misconduct of the Founder of Church’s Most Popular Apologist Ministry, Ravi Zacharias. |
| Links to Other Helpful Articles |
| 12 walls that prevent abuse survivors from ever telling |
| Respond to abuse and pastoral malpractice |
| Abuse & Pastoral Malpractice |
| Standing up to bully pastors |
Why Defining Gossip Matters in the Church’s Response to Abuse From Christianity today on 20/04/2021. ““We’ve seen, particularly in the past several years, powerful people able to harm others—sometimes over the course of many years—and get away with it, in part because the victims were isolated and unaware of each other, in part because the organization protected its leaders from appropriate criticism,” .For victims who have kept their experiences quiet out of fear, who have ruminated and worried and blamed themselves to the point that they’re at the end of their spiritual rope, that small, trusted group of listeners can be a lifeline. It can also reveal evidence of a pattern of abuse, a simultaneously heartbreaking and comforting realization that—despite the isolation they felt in silence—they are not alone. “When they call it gossip, when they don’t allow for processing and unpacking, there’s no chance for anyone to understand what is happening to them,” |
Why make public a private investigation? Using the Ravi Zacharias case as just one example…Given the severity of the allegations against Ravi as well as the public nature of his ministry and global platform, the Board made a decision in the fall of 2020 to initiate an independent investigation and to share the final report with the public. This was done because Knowledge is Power. In this case it is Power to stop abuse happening again, Power to hold the abuser responsible, and Power to begin to help the victims. With-holding knowledge of abuse however, ensures the abuser maintains the power to continue to abuse. |
Mental & Emotional Abuse
If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger,
always call 999 and ask for the police.
Help for victims of Mental and Emotional Abuse
If you feel like you are being controlled, bullied or manipulated by a partner,
please check this useful article
https://www.cambridge-news.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/domestic-abuse-partner-cant-do-14543776
General help and info and advice can be found at this site:
https://www.crisistextline.org/topics/emotional-abuse/#what-is-emotional-abuse-1
Sexual Abuse
If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger,
always call 999 and ask for the police.
Help for victims of Sexual Abuse
Information directly taken from:
https://sexualabusesupport.campaign.gov.uk/#support
Whenever it happened to you it is never too late to get support for sexual abuse or sexual violence.
If you can’t find the information or support you’re looking for, contact Victim Support’s 24/7 Supportline on 08 08 16 89 111 or live chat.
For more info, contact details, and advice visit:
https://sexualabusesupport.campaign.gov.uk/#get_confidential_support
Domestic Abuse
If you are, or someone you know of is in immediate danger,
always call 999 and ask for the police.
Help for victims of Domestic Violence
Help for refugees suffering domestic violence: https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk
Bright Sky app
Bright Sky is a mobile app and website for anyone experiencing domestic abuse, or who is worried about someone else.
The app can be downloaded for free from the app stores. Only download the app if it is safe for you to do so and if you are sure that your phone isn’t being monitored.
GOV.UK information
| Nation | Helpline | Contact |
|---|---|---|
| England | Refuge’s National Domestic Abuse Helpline | 0808 2000 247 Online live chat Web form |
| Northern Ireland | Domestic and Sexual Abuse Helpline | 0808 802 1414 Online live chat help@dsahelpline.org |
| Scotland | Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline | 0800 027 1234 Online live chat helpline@sdafmh.org.uk |
| Wales | Live Fear Free | 0808 80 10 800 Online live chat Text info@livefearfreehelpline.wales |
| UK-wide | The Men’s Advice Line run by Respect is a confidential helpline specifically for male victims. | 0808 801 0327 info@mensadviceline.org.uk |
For more help check:
https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/domes
tic-abuse-get-help-for-specific-needs-or-situations/domestic-abuse-specialist-sources-of-support
Child Abuse
If a child is in immediate danger,
call the police on 999 straight away.
Help for victims of Chid Abuse
Call 0800 1111 for the official UK CHILDLINE helpline, it wont show up on your phone bill, and you can ask to speak to a 1 to 1 counsellor anytime you need to.
Other ways to contact them can be found here, along with advice and more info: https://www.childline.org.uk/get-support/contacting-childline/
Not in the UK? Check here for help.
https://www.childhelplineinternational.org/child-helplines/child-helpline-network/
For children suffering abuse in the UK, call 0800 visit this page and look at the end section which covers various types of abuse and gives helplines and contact details to get help for each of them.
https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/bullying-abuse-safety/abuse-safety/physical-abuse/
What to do if you’re worried about a child
Directly taken from the NSPCC WEBSITE
If you’re worried about a child, even if you’re unsure, you can speak to us about your concerns. Whether you want to report child abuse and neglect or aren’t sure what to do, we’re here to listen, offer advice and support and can take the next steps if a child’s in danger.
Our telephone lines are open Monday to Friday 8am – 10pm or 9am – 6pm at the weekends. You can contact us online or by email 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.
It’s normal to feel anxious, nervous or unsure about getting in touch with us. We’re here to help and take that worry from you. Letting us know you’re worried about a child could be the first step to helping protect them from a lifetime of abuse and neglect.
If you’re using a mobile device/tablet and are experiencing difficulties completing our online form, please try using a computer, or call us on 0808 800 5000, or email help@nspcc.org.uk to report your concern.
Forced Labour/ Illegal Working Conditions
If you are, or someone you know of is in immediate danger,
always call 999 and ask for the police.
Help for victims of Forced Labour/ Forced to work under Illegal Conditions
International Trafficking
https://www.coe.int/en/web/anti-human-trafficking
Help in the UK
Help, Healing and Hope for Victims of Abuse
YOU ARE NOT ALONE
You have reached our abuse victims support site.
Like our Facebook page, it is run entirely by a voluntary Christian team of abuse survivors, who are committed to doing all they can to ensure :
ABUSE
- is not minimised
- does not remain hidden or covered up
- is not allowed to continue.
VICTIMS
- are heard and are taken seriously
- have a safe option available to share their story publicly
- have confidential support
- can remain anonymous
- have the option of assistance to find:
Help for the Present,
Healing for the Past,
and Hope for the Future.
No matter who you are, or what brought you to this site, our hope is that you leave here knowing for certain that your life has great worth, you are valued, and that whatever you are going through today, you are not alone.
You
Are
NOT
Alone
Support For Those Abused by Grace Fellowship Manchester Church Members & Other Abusive Groups& Individuals
Help is at Hand
IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW ARE IN IMMEDIATE DANGER, STOP READING AND CALL THE POLICE!
999 (UK)
911 (USA)
Every type of abuse has a lasting and damaging effect on a victim, and anyone connected closely with them.
Fortunately, there are many specialist individuals and groups offering free services to help, covering for a wide variety of situations. Our list will be updated regularly, but in the meantime here is some information on where to find a few good resources, that you may find useful.
Feel free to contact us if you feel you would like more information or would like to share your story or just need to talk to someone about any abuse you have experienced or witnessed and are unsure what to do about it. We are more than willing to hear from you, and are happy to listen if you want to share your story. We can also direct you to qualified and experienced professionals who can help you further if you would like that.
Helpful Organisations, Links, References, Articles and More
Spiritual Abuse
Help for victims of Spiritual Abuse
If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, always call 999 and ask for the police. |
https://www.netgrace.org/resources A fantastic site with many resources and links for survivors of spiritual abuse. |
Dr. Diane Langberg is a practicing psychologist whose clinical expertise includes 35 years of working with trauma survivors and clergy. She speaks internationally on topics related to women, trauma, ministry and the Christian life. |
Investigation into Sexual Misconduct of the Founder of Church’s Most Popular Apologist Ministry, Ravi Zacharias. |
| Links to Other Helpful Articles |
| 12 walls that prevent abuse survivors from ever telling |
| Respond to abuse and pastoral malpractice |
| Abuse & Pastoral Malpractice |
| Standing up to bully pastors |
Why Defining Gossip Matters in the Church’s Response to Abuse From Christianity today on 20/04/2021. ““We’ve seen, particularly in the past several years, powerful people able to harm others—sometimes over the course of many years—and get away with it, in part because the victims were isolated and unaware of each other, in part because the organization protected its leaders from appropriate criticism,” .For victims who have kept their experiences quiet out of fear, who have ruminated and worried and blamed themselves to the point that they’re at the end of their spiritual rope, that small, trusted group of listeners can be a lifeline. It can also reveal evidence of a pattern of abuse, a simultaneously heartbreaking and comforting realization that—despite the isolation they felt in silence—they are not alone. “When they call it gossip, when they don’t allow for processing and unpacking, there’s no chance for anyone to understand what is happening to them,” |
Why make public a private investigation? Using the Ravi Zacharias case as just one example…Given the severity of the allegations against Ravi as well as the public nature of his ministry and global platform, the Board made a decision in the fall of 2020 to initiate an independent investigation and to share the final report with the public. This was done because Knowledge is Power. In this case it is Power to stop abuse happening again, Power to hold the abuser responsible, and Power to begin to help the victims. With-holding knowledge of abuse however, ensures the abuser maintains the power to continue to abuse. |
Mental & Emotional Abuse
If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger,
always call 999 and ask for the police.
Help for victims of Mental and Emotional Abuse
If you feel like you are being controlled, bullied or manipulated by a partner,
please check this useful article
https://www.cambridge-news.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/domestic-abuse-partner-cant-do-14543776
General help and info and advice can be found at this site:
https://www.crisistextline.org/topics/emotional-abuse/#what-is-emotional-abuse-1
Sexual Abuse
If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger,
always call 999 and ask for the police.
Help for victims of Sexual Abuse
Information directly taken from:
https://sexualabusesupport.campaign.gov.uk/#support
Whenever it happened to you it is never too late to get support for sexual abuse or sexual violence.
If you can’t find the information or support you’re looking for, contact Victim Support’s 24/7 Supportline on 08 08 16 89 111 or live chat.
For more info, contact details, and advice visit:
https://sexualabusesupport.campaign.gov.uk/#get_confidential_support
Domestic Abuse
If you are, or someone you know of is in immediate danger,
always call 999 and ask for the police.
Help for victims of Domestic Violence
Help for refugees suffering domestic violence: https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk
Bright Sky app
Bright Sky is a mobile app and website for anyone experiencing domestic abuse, or who is worried about someone else.
The app can be downloaded for free from the app stores. Only download the app if it is safe for you to do so and if you are sure that your phone isn’t being monitored.
GOV.UK information
| Nation | Helpline | Contact |
|---|---|---|
| England | Refuge’s National Domestic Abuse Helpline | 0808 2000 247 Online live chat Web form |
| Northern Ireland | Domestic and Sexual Abuse Helpline | 0808 802 1414 Online live chat help@dsahelpline.org |
| Scotland | Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline | 0800 027 1234 Online live chat helpline@sdafmh.org.uk |
| Wales | Live Fear Free | 0808 80 10 800 Online live chat Text info@livefearfreehelpline.wales |
| UK-wide | The Men’s Advice Line run by Respect is a confidential helpline specifically for male victims. | 0808 801 0327 info@mensadviceline.org.uk |
For more help check:
https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/domes
tic-abuse-get-help-for-specific-needs-or-situations/domestic-abuse-specialist-sources-of-support
Child Abuse
If a child is in immediate danger,
call the police on 999 straight away.
Help for victims of Chid Abuse
Call 0800 1111 for the official UK CHILDLINE helpline, it wont show up on your phone bill, and you can ask to speak to a 1 to 1 counsellor anytime you need to.
Other ways to contact them can be found here, along with advice and more info: https://www.childline.org.uk/get-support/contacting-childline/
Not in the UK? Check here for help.
https://www.childhelplineinternational.org/child-helplines/child-helpline-network/
For children suffering abuse in the UK, call 0800 visit this page and look at the end section which covers various types of abuse and gives helplines and contact details to get help for each of them.
https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/bullying-abuse-safety/abuse-safety/physical-abuse/
What to do if you’re worried about a child
Directly taken from the NSPCC WEBSITE
If you’re worried about a child, even if you’re unsure, you can speak to us about your concerns. Whether you want to report child abuse and neglect or aren’t sure what to do, we’re here to listen, offer advice and support and can take the next steps if a child’s in danger.
Our telephone lines are open Monday to Friday 8am – 10pm or 9am – 6pm at the weekends. You can contact us online or by email 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.
It’s normal to feel anxious, nervous or unsure about getting in touch with us. We’re here to help and take that worry from you. Letting us know you’re worried about a child could be the first step to helping protect them from a lifetime of abuse and neglect.
If you’re using a mobile device/tablet and are experiencing difficulties completing our online form, please try using a computer, or call us on 0808 800 5000, or email help@nspcc.org.uk to report your concern.
Forced Labour/ Illegal Working Conditions
If you are, or someone you know of is in immediate danger,
always call 999 and ask for the police.
Help for victims of Forced Labour/ Forced to work under Illegal Conditions
International Trafficking
https://www.coe.int/en/web/anti-human-trafficking
Help in the UK
